I am staying with my fiancé and his brother who has two kids.
My problem is that my boyfriend does not want his brother to do anything even after eating he cannot tell him to wash his own plate.
I cook,I clean, I do every household chore a woman can do, but the brother does not lift a finger to help.
He brings girls to the house and sleeps with them.
The brother doesn’t say anything but I am talking about someone who doesn’t even know how to buy himself bathing soap.
When I ask my boyfriend if this is how it’s always going to be, allowing his brother to do as he pleases inside the house even after we get married, he just says he doesn’t know.
This is beyond me. I really can’t take it anymore because I too have sisters and brothers, but I can’t allow them to come with their boyfriends or girlfriends in my house that I pay rent for.
Really, this is disrespectful and I’m tired of being treated like a maid. What can I do?